If you've been following me long enough you know that I am having a major withdrawl for a moment. the past week my brain has died and I can't really stop myself from doing anything. I wish I had the power but i don't. Luckily I don't have the feeling as I had when I could've sworn I was going insane.
the day I first noticed this was the day after my ex called me saying he wanted to get back together with me. first of all it's not like he was the dumpee but rather he was the dumper. I couldn't figure it out and Is till can't. He left with what he called a gut feeling to leave me. I told him he should do what he feels like the right thing is. exactly a week later he call me saying {as best i can remember} "I'm a very proud person so this is hard for me to say. I'm sorry I was stupid and I miss you. is there any way you can take me back?"
with this I responded "wow I... um. I don't know. I just..." then I went to talk to my mom and her bf about it. they said they didn't want to be responsible if I got hurt so they weren't going to tell me what to do. so then I decided to tell I was going to sleep on it think it over. he called me back a week later and I told him my friends would hate me if I did and I really can't have them hating my right now. he said "okay that's good enough for me" then hung up... no goodbye... no can we stillbe friends... nothing.
then a week later he calls me and says "I've been like drinking for the past two hours." I didn't know what to say after that, I mean he wants to be a military chaplain. what on earth is up with that. he also did dip. I'm not sure what he says is the truth anymore and I'm worried. after that my phone died so I didn't get an explanation.
anyway It doesn't hurt it's just confusing and makes me worry what's running through his mind.
REMEBER, I am not an expert. So, if you ever decided to use my advice, and it fails, it will be your fault for an eternaty.
ReplyDeleteOkay, first off, your brain died!? Where was the funeral?! Second, do what my mom did. Don't see your ex (or take him back) for lets say, a LONG time. Trust me (sense I am a guy last time I checked), if he is wanting you back, it could mean one of two things: (1)First, he is desprately in love and must realy want you back. (2)Or he just want something to tap. So, my advice is this: make him suffer. If he keeps up, then it has to do with number one. If not, he just wants number two. This all the guy-advice I can give you.
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